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Wedding Reception Entertainment Tips

By Doug McAlexander

Manager, Arsis Productions

BUDGETING FOR A BAND

Hiring a "live" band is a great way to ensure a "lively" reception that will create lasting memories you will cherish for decades. As the years pass by and you pull out the wedding album for a romantic moment by the fireplace, you will see wonderful memories that your photographer captured on film. (Assuming you followed my advice in an earlier article about finding a good variety band)

The following suggestions are intended to help you prioritize your budget and get a great band.


The atmosphere WITHOUT live entertainment

Think of receptions you have attended. If there was no band or deejay, you probably were drawn to the flower arrangements, the ice sculpture, the cake, food, etc. You probably didn’t stay very long either. You shook a few hands, hugged the bride and groom and were "outta there."


The atmosphere WITH live entertainment

With a band, or with any live entertainment for that matter, anyone entering the room is immediately drawn to the sound and what is producing it. Sad but true, flowers, and décor become secondary interests. The pace of the reception will be in the hands of the entertainer.


Prioritize

Remember that your guest's attention will be drawn to the music as soon as they enter the room. And if you have a real party band, they will not be as interested in how elaborate your floral arrangements are, nor will they want to eat so much that they are too stuffed to dance. A seated dinner or fancy buffet is not a requirement when your focus is a party atmosphere. There is certainly nothing wrong with either a seated dinner or a fancy buffet, if you have the budget. In fact, my band plays a special group of songs we call "dinner music", especially suited for the earlier part of a reception when everyone is eating and drinking. But your guests will most likley eat another three meals the next day. The food will soon be forgotten. However the excitement that they experienced during hours of dancing will create a lasting memory about your reception. Mixed Company has had numerous clients tell us about how they "...went to a brunch at the club 6 months after the wedding and our friends were still talking about the band and how much fun they had." Below is a very revealing poll taken by www.weddingzone.net regarding the most important element for a wedding reception. The response is overwhelmingly in favor of entertainment as the most important element of the reception, coming in at 46%, with food in second place at 25%.

======================================================= POLL RESULTS =======================================================
What do you think the most important element of the Wedding Reception is...

  • the food? - 846 votes (25%)
  • the photographer/videographer? - 218 votes (6%)
  • THE ENTERTAINMENT? - 1538 votes (46%)
  • the flowers/decorations? - 188 votes (5%)
  • the location? - 486 votes (14%)

    I personally would place more emphasis on the photographer/videographer due to my own personal experience in that area. I have no good wedding pictures and cannot relive that moment. Then again, with lousy entertainment, what will the reception photos consist of - guests sitting at round tables eating chicken fingers? Perhaps they may consist of just a handful of guests because most went home early due to lack of entertainment. The reality is that many photographers are already getting $5,000-$10,000 (not including videography), the catering is between $60 and $150 per guest and venues are charging several thousand dollars just for four walls and a roof. Yet people expect to book a great live band for $1500-2000. There are even "wedding consultants" who recommend hiring local high school musicians who are just starting out, because you can get them cheap. Give the photographer an opportunity to capture some truly great shots by having great entertainment. The vast majority of calls I get from wedding clients start with the caller making the comment, "the band will either make or break the event, so I must get the best." So I inquire about their budget and find that they are trying to book the best for $7.50 to $10.00 per guest (based upon an average of 200 guests). Be realistic with your expectations and prioritize accordingly. You will find many professional-quality live bands who are very reasonably priced but also possess the talent to make your reception the party you hope it will be. And the good news is you won't likely have to break the bank to get them. They will probably still be one of the least expensive elements of your reception. It has been said that the entertainer yields the most for the least at an event. Who creates the party? Will the reception end after the food is eaten?


    Let the quality of the performance dictate your budget

    Don't let your budget dictate the quality of the performance, let the quality of the performance dictate your budget. Consider this analogy: I remember when I could buy a bag of potato chips for twenty-nine cents and the bag was full. Nowadays that same bag costs fifty-nine cents and it is full of air. So at 2:00 in the morning when I stop off for a bag of chips on my way home from a "gig" I have to decide whether I will let my budget, the standard rate of fifty-nine cents, determine how many chips I get, or let my wallet (how much money I have to spend) decide. For $1.69 I can get the premium bag of chips with about the same amount of chips I was accustomed to in the twenty-nine cent days. If I have $2.00 in my wallet, then maybe I will let my wallet decide what I get, rather than my budget. I may have to forgo the Coke, but by golly I got the chips I wanted. Are you going to let your budget force you into buying a cheap bag of air, or are you going to "flex" your budget and live for the moment? In this case, the moment happens only once. Lay's will make more potato chips for next time, in case I chose the bag of air, but there is no next time for your wedding day. When it is over it goes into the history books, under one of three chapters, disastrous, mediocre, or spectacular.


    Get the best

    Be very wise in budgeting for your band and allow enough to get the best. Be realistic in your expectations. You are probably expecting the band to supply their own transportation and service vehicles, load-in and set-up crew, talented musicians, thousands of dollars worth of instruments, expensive state-of-the art sound system, lighting, pre-recorded music for the breaks, and the technical knowledge and experience to put on a phenomenal show that will make or break your event. Consider this: Just renting the kind of sound and lighting equipment that a professional band would use to do the job right could cost between $2500 and $3500. Most bands purchase their own sound and lighting equipment, but they have to amortize the initial cost and maintenance of the equipment into every performance. This is less expensive than if you, the client, were forced to rent the sound and lighting at $2500 to $3500, but nonetheless the cost has to be covered. When you add in logistics costs such as equipment storage, transportation, insurance, legal and accounting fees, office supplies, demos, brochures, telephone, advertising, etc., a professional band will easily have $1500-$2000 per performance invested before they ever put a musician on stage. If you get a quote from a band that seems too good to be true, it probably is in fact too good to be true. You wouldn't expect a top of the line Mercedes for the price of a Kia would you? The saying, "you get what you pay for", is never more true than in a wedding market that is flooded with so many "cheesy" bands. Find out what the going rate is for the best wedding reception bands in your area and budget accordingly. The truth is that there is usually only about $1000 to $1500 difference in price between a hobby band and a great professional band. If your guests go home early because you booked a "budget band", that could not hold everyone's interest and maintain the flow of the evening, your caterer will most likely wind up throwing out thousands of dollars worth of food that wasn't eaten -- perhaps wasting the amount of money needed to have had a professional variety band in the first place. You do your special event the greatest service by booking a reputable professional band that has the years of experience necessary to make your reception flow at the perfect pace. You can usually save the amount you need to make the difference between getting an "okay" band or a great band by trimming the flower and food budget. But be sure you are speaking with a professional wedding band, not just a band that does weddings on the side to fill in an opening in their calendar. A professional wedding band should be able to provide a list of wedding receptions they have played and prove that is their focus. My band, Mixed Company, maintains a Web page with numerous E-mails, cards, letters, and even voice mails from past clients, so our visitors can feel secure in knowing that the band has the experience necessary to make their big day the best it can be. You can review this page at www.mixedcompany.com/letters.html.


    Get the best value

    Another point to be careful of when getting price information together is the size of the band. Be careful how you ask for the size of the band. If you ask how many members are in the band, you will get a body count. That may or may not be useful information. Let me explain. Some bands have separate singers and instrumentalists. Suppose you ask how many members are in the band and they respond with eight. And when they quote you a price of $4000 for 4 hours, it sounds like a very good deal compared to a band that may quote $3500 for 5 people. That's $500 per musician versus $700 per musician, right? Don't get caught in the trap of dividing the price by the number of musicians to measure the value. Remember that the equipment, advertising, demos, and logistics costs are factored into the quote, so not all of the money is divided among the musicians. What you really want to measure is how full the sound will be. What you are paying for, beyond their experience in performing for wedding receptions, is the "fullness" of their sound. The 5-member band may have 4 instrumentalists, all of whom are also vocalists, so for $3500 you get the same amount of sound as an 8-piece band which is made up of 4 instrumentalists and 4 vocalists. And you save $500 in this example. See how that works? Be very careful not to get snared by thinking in terms of headcount and dollars. Incidentally, the prices used in my example are not necessarily standard and certainly do not represent any particular market area. I just used them for comparitive purposes.


    The bottom line

    In twenty years when you look through your photo album, I bet you will prefer pictures of your guests dancing rather than pictures of them eating. Get the best band you can find. For tips about finding the best band, read the article entitled "How To Book the Perfect Variety Band?"


    I hope you have found this article helpful. Please feel free to contact me if you have a question I have not covered in one of these articles. I make this advice available for no charge, as I endeavor to raise the bar of excellence with regard to wedding entertainment.


    Doug McAlexander - Arsis Productions

    E-mail: arsisproductions@gmail.com


    Links to other related articles:

    A Band Or A DJ...(Which should you choose?)

    How To Book the Perfect Variety Band?

    Getting The Most Value From The Band You Hire

    Coordinating the Reception Venue with the Band

    What is Swing Music?

    How To Guarantee That Your Band Will Show Up

    Wedding Reception Entertainment Q & A


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